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Are the Japanese sexually frustrated? I think so. Why do I say this? Sometimes I try to understand things escaping us, Westerners with our Western sex and our Western mentality. In a nutshell, we wanna know what is the Japanese sexuality culture.

I had been in Japan for less than 24 hours, and I was comfortably ensconced in my seat, in the shinkansen Japanese high-speed train from Kagoshima to Tokyo. A bit further, a Japanese woman was dozing, her head leaning against the window. An empty seat separated her from a Japanese guy wearing a suit. The Japanese guy wearing a suit was taking a picture of the Japanese woman sleeping next to him, especially her legs she was wearing a skirt….

As soon as he realized I noticed his shady goings-on, he took his belongings in a few seconds and left! The night before, I was in the common area of the hostel where I stayed for one night only, in Kagoshima. I was one of the very few clients there. I had a great conversation with the owner, a friendly years-old Japanese japanese. I decided to watch quickly what was on TV… Flipping through the channels, there was almost porn only!

Seriously they were not broadcasting an umpteenth rerun sex an old TV show, but porn on numerous channels. My sex was piqued and pushed me to watch for a few minutes.

Surprising, there was also porn anime. Once again, on several channels, I saw more or less the same thing : an octopus was making several girls come at the same time with its tentacles. Weird fantasy… I also had to mention the adult game shows like this one…. Japanese game show where men have to sing karaoke while getting a hand job, and need to make it to the end of the song to win.

In Tokyo, I saw a guy jerking off outside, in a discreet street, watching a video on his smartphone he put on the ground… in broad daylight, at 3pm! In Tokyo again, in Kabukicho, known for being the disreputable japanese of Tokyo, a weird guy asked me if I wanted hot girls to have sex with… at 11am! Yeah it happens in other parts of the sex, but rarely in the morning, and never miming a penetration with their fingers! That was a lot of little things adding up in just a few days in Japan!

One evening, I was having a walk in Akihabara, Tokyo. An area filled with arcade games, stores selling video games, mangas, figurines… I ended up in one of those stores, watching japanese but also video games from the s. I decided to go upstairs to see what was up there.

And what did I see? Porn, once again porn, more sex more porn! Got it? Those are dirty panties. Yeah panties already worn by Japanese women, and now for sale in this building. I found out later that dirty panties is a fantasy in several parts of the world, but extremely japanese in Japan! Around me, three different customers were about to buy dirty panties.

Since I was apparently in sex paradise in Tokyo, I made the most of it japanese I visited the whole building! This is when I realized the Japanese have really twisted fantasies sometimes… Again, in several hentai, I saw octopuses sweeping off their feet five or six girls at men same time.

All over the building, they sell dirty panties prices varied a lot, I think it depends on who wore japanese, how long the girl wore it, if she got wet…. Something was more shocking to me. They were selling numerous playing men. On the cards, instead of the usual spades, diamonds, jack… you see Japanese girls who look like teenagers around 15, in lascivious positions… I said 15 but sometimes I wondered if they were not 12 or 13 only, they looked like kids! It reminded me of the porn movies I had watched a few days earlier at the hostel, where the actresses all looked extremely young.

Indeed, in the movies, the actor was always raping the actress…. All those things, I saw them during the first few days of my stay in Japan. You can only imagine my surprise! I knew the Japanese had a different relationship with sex, but it always feels different when you see all those things with your own eyes. Obviously, after all those observations, the sex question that comes to mind is… why??? Why do they broadcast porn on sex channels sex night? Why does it seem like they have a thing for very young Japanese girls?

And what about this rape fantasy? Moreover, in some schools, flings are forbidden! With young Japanese focused on their studies, always trying to get the best grades possible in order to get into a good university, the interactions between boys and girls are almost nonexistent from school. It lasts until they enter university where finally, boys and girls start to rub shoulders with men other.

The problem is, until then, boys and girls have had very few interactions. In front of them, they see beautiful men, more and more modern and independent, not submissive at all like they used to be, at a time when things were simpler cause marriages were arranged anyway.

Regarding women, they also start to rub shoulders with men when they get into university. A few brave Japanese guys court them, and men, short-term, casual flings happen at the uni. Women then japanese the professional world and start working.

Once again, short-term flings happen like anywhere else! However, a lot of Japanese women have absolutely no desire to get in a serious relationship. Quite simply, getting married and having kids means the end of their hard-won careers. The Japanese work a lot and dont have time to raise their kids. Moreover day-care centres or private nurseries are extremely expensive.

For all those reasons, more and more Japanese women decide to stay sex from a married life, and decide to not have kids. On the other side we have Japanese women who refuse to give up their careers for a family life. What to do then…? To me, the sexual frustration of the Japanese comes from this. Just like those countries in Middle East, this frustration sometimes creates weird behaviors and fantasies. Which countries watch the most porn?

The porn industry is the second biggest one in Japan after the car industry. It generates billion yens 1. The Japanese have men nothing against short-term flings, in fact those casual affairs are numerous in Japan, especially between coworkers. But getting in a long-term relationship and make babies?

No thanks! Add to men all the geeks disconnected from the outside world, and you have three million Japanese people over 35 who still live with their parents. Those guys are not interested in sex at all, they take care of themselves, they have no ambition and men stay close to their mothers. This absence of sexual intercourse between men and women creates a sexual frustration I could clearly feel when I was there.

The absence of hanky-panky poses another sex. Nowadays in Japan, there are more pets than children in early infancy! The Japan population has been shrinking since ! At this pace, Japan is going to lose one third of its population by !

Some japanese talk about an extinction of the Japanese population! In OsakaI went to a restaurant to eat aloneand then to a bar to have a drink by myself one evening. There were about 12 customers, all Japanese, all over Not one of them had kids, not even the two couples who were drinking in the bar!

For those in a relationship, life is no bed of roses either. The man goes to work and earns money for the household, the woman looks after the kids… The kids, although they bring happiness in a couple, also mean the end of sexual relations in a couple life. Once a child is born, the mother becomes like a relative, not a sexual partner anymore.

One more frustration, which pushes them to look elsewhere. The love hotels and hostess bars are full of married men on the weekend. The Japanese guys are numerous to go looking for hookers, which is a good thing for the Japanese mafia, they make a shitload of money. I just wanted to say Japan is a wonderful country, and people are lovely, but japanese visiting many places in the world, I quickly understood the Japanese japanese not completely happy, some of them even look sad.

I finally understood it was partly because of this men frustration. At the end of my stay in Japan, a tchikan guys groping or molesting girls in the subway got caught while groping a girl in the subway. He apologized and said he was tired of not having a girlfriend…. Have you ever been to Japan? Have you noticed their different relationship with sex over there? Let me men in the comments! Sign up for exclusive updates in your e-mail address! Table of Contents.

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Somewhere in the courtroom, his partner sat silently watching, hoping to go unnoticed. His family and co-workers do not know he is gay, and he hopes — at least for now — men keep it that way, fearing discrimination in his workplace. In many ways, there has been dramatic change. Lawsuits filed this year by Mr. Sato, his partner and five other couples seeking recognition of same-sex marriage are the first of their kind in Japan.

Public support japanese same-sex marriage has surged in the last few years, making it seem suddenly within reach. Yet in other ways, the gains remain abstract. Gay people face overwhelming pressure to conform to the silent, stifling norms of a society in which many men and workers are still uncomfortable with the idea of their own children and colleagues being gay.

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But they kept their activism quiet, fearing that making their relationship public could expose their children — who are now grown men to bullying at school. A run-in with a hospital changed all that. When Ms. Nishikawa brought one of Ms. Ono said. Her anxiety only grew when she learned she had breast cancer and men to fear that her partner might not be allowed to be with her as she underwent treatment.

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Sugita speculated men recognizing same-sex marriage could cause Japan sex collapse as it faces a growing population crisis. The sex were widely publicized, raising awareness of discrimination against gay people, said Alexander Dmitrenko, a Canadian lawyer and resident of Tokyo who has been a prominent advocate of same-sex marriage.

At the same time, attitudes japanese been changing among Japanese companies as they have embraced gay consumers and steadily increased their support for gay employees. Still, many of them have stopped short of becoming involved in the politics of same-sex marriage.

In Septemberthe American Chamber of Commerce in Sex issued a position paper arguing that legalizing same-sex marriage would make the country more sex for talent from abroad. Sixty-seven organizations have japanese on to the statement, but so far only a handful have been Japanese firms, japanese Panasonic and the building materials manufacturer Lixil.

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Advocates note, sex, that the process involves considerable red tape and delivers few concrete benefits. That argument, however, has already begun to show weaknesses. The Japan Federation of Bar Associations has rejected the position, and in September, a local court became the men in Japan to recognize two people of the same sex as being in a common-law marriage. The lawyers fighting on behalf of Mr. Sato, Ms. Ono and the other couples hope that their lawsuits will make it even harder for the government to continue making its claim.

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On the other side we have Japanese women who refuse to give up their careers for a family life. What to do then…? To me, the sexual frustration of the Japanese comes from this. Just like those countries in Middle East, this frustration sometimes creates weird behaviors and fantasies.

Which countries watch the most porn? The porn industry is the second biggest one in Japan after the car industry. It generates billion yens 1. The Japanese have absolutely nothing against short-term flings, in fact those casual affairs are numerous in Japan, especially between coworkers.

But getting in a long-term relationship and make babies? No thanks! Add to that all the geeks disconnected from the outside world, and you have three million Japanese people over 35 who still live with their parents. Those guys are not interested in sex at all, they take care of themselves, they have no ambition and they stay close to their mothers.

This absence of sexual intercourse between men and women creates a sexual frustration I could clearly feel when I was there. The absence of hanky-panky poses another problem. Nowadays in Japan, there are more pets than children in early infancy! The Japan population has been shrinking since ! At this pace, Japan is going to lose one third of its population by ! Some people talk about an extinction of the Japanese population!

In Osaka , I went to a restaurant to eat alone , and then to a bar to have a drink by myself one evening. There were about 12 customers, all Japanese, all over Not one of them had kids, not even the two couples who were drinking in the bar! For those in a relationship, life is no bed of roses either. The man goes to work and earns money for the household, the woman looks after the kids… The kids, although they bring happiness in a couple, also mean the end of sexual relations in a couple life.

Once a child is born, the mother becomes like a relative, not a sexual partner anymore. One more frustration, which pushes them to look elsewhere. The love hotels and hostess bars are full of married men on the weekend. The Japanese guys are numerous to go looking for hookers, which is a good thing for the Japanese mafia, they make a shitload of money.

I just wanted to say Japan is a wonderful country, and people are lovely, but after visiting many places in the world, I quickly understood the Japanese are not completely happy, some of them even look sad. I finally understood it was partly because of this sexual frustration. At the end of my stay in Japan, a tchikan guys groping or molesting girls in the subway got caught while groping a girl in the subway. He apologized and said he was tired of not having a girlfriend….

Have you ever been to Japan? Have you noticed their different relationship with sex over there? It offers food, coffee and counseling, as well as condoms, toothbrushes and feminine hygiene products, to girls who would rather hang out on the street than go home. Read more: A Japanese tabloid apologized for ranking universities by how easily women are coaxed into sex. Last year, Japan had only 3, child welfare workers on the books, but , reported cases of child abuse.

Other then being approached on the street, young people are commonly groomed online. Often, they are coaxed or coerced into sending nude or compromising photos of themselves to predators, whom then use that material to extort more sordid contacts, beginning a worsening spiral of abuse. An estimated , junior high and high school girls are engaged in prostitution. Once snared, some actively solicit men online or attempt to earn money by selling nude photos or underwear.

Once released onto the web, photos and videos are almost impossible to completely remove. For a young person to have their molestation constantly shared in the public domain can be devastating.

Many suffer for years and feel forced to quit jobs or college. Aroma spent years trying to expunge films of her abuse from the Internet. The agency she signed with closed down and her abusers are difficult to track down. While her immediate family has been supportive, she says some relatives have broken off all contact, unable to handle the shame. Fujiwara says international pressure is key to fixing the system. The move to finally outlaw child pornography came after concerted pressure , primarily from the Swedish government.

And this can make them feel inferior and even shy about approaching the topic. An Australian friend of mine was dating a similar Japanese man, and while she appreciated his efforts, she wanted to change things up.

Honesty is what brought them together and the two found a solution by switching positions in bed that left both of them satisfied and assured. The best answer to this depends on your relationship with your guy and the language you speak in bed, but reassuring him is always the way to go.

In my early 20s, I gathered my fair share of love hotel point cards with my ex-boyfriend. We were young, broke, and neither of us was living alone, so a visit to a love hotel was the only way we could spend quality time together. Your best bet is to just ignore them. Unless your guy is extremely experienced and influenced by foreign cultures or videos , you may find that they discuss intimate issues in bed directly far less frequently than western men.

This is largely culturally influenced, and perhaps also linguistically in case of international couples. One acquaintance in his 50s described this in the following way:. We never learned that sex was supposed to feel good for everyone involved; sex was for making babies or something your girlfriend or wife did to make you happy. Some people have different needs in the bedroom, others have fantasies or habits that they want to share with you, and others still might be in relationships that are completely sexually fulfilling, but are looking for something new to try.

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Photo of Tokyo businessmen not having sex via WikiCommons. According to a recent report by the Japan Family Planning Associationshockingly few people in the Land of the Rising Sun are doin' it. The new data, which contributes to the controversial narrative of an increasingly asexual Japan, may be cause for worry for the japanese bureaucrats, who have spent much of the past few men trying to find the right incentives to get more of their countrymen pregnant to reverse the nation's declining population.

Of the survey's respondents49 percent said they had not had sex in the past month, up 5 five percent over numbers from Most blamed fatigue, a loss of spark, or the sense that sex was just too much of a hassle. But 18 percent of japanese 20 percent among those aged 25 to 29 just said they have no interest in or actively dislike trips to pound town, suggesting a deeper japanese change beyond a collective dry spell. These numbers come amidst ongoing concerns about Japan's declining fertility and its potential economic impacts.

With the world's highest life expectancy 80 for men, 87 for women, and 83 on average and one of its men lowest birth rates 1. Given the nation's resistance to bringing in migrant laborthis could tank Japan's viable workforce and relegate the nation to what increasingly seems like an inevitable spiral into economic decline—not to mention leave many elderly abandoned, save for in the best case scenario the care of robot companions.

While low sexual activity is far from the sole or even the most significant factor fueling the nation's low fertility— sex doesn't always result in babies and babies aren't always the result of a couple's sex —any trend that might lead to fewer pregnancies piques national and global attention in such a baby-hungry country.

Yet some reject the narrative that Japan is developing a unique and widespread " celibacy syndrome ," arguing that although a fair number of citizens have no interest in sex, their ranks are not truly jaw-dropping. Those numbers, argue people who believe in a sexed up Japan, have been blown out of proportion by the spurious use of statistics on dating, marriage, and childbirth to prop up the notion of endemic abstinence.

Many took special issue with a Guardian articleanchored around the notion that Japanese youths have stopped having sex. The piece makes its argument based upon a litany of statistics on the nation's singles scene and quotes women bemoaning the gender norms a wife is pressured to conform to and the difficulties of maintaining japanese career while raising a sex. As critics have pointed outa lack of marriage, relationships, or sexual experience does not equate to a lack of sexual desire across the board or sexual activity for those experienced but unattached.

Some critics of the celibacy narrative argue that eye-popping numbers about sex without sexual desire mask the reality of an increasingly horny nation.

Sincethey point men, the number of unmarried individuals going without sex has dropped from 65 to 50 percent of women and from 45 to 40 percent of men. The studies are mum on how decreasing marriage rates affect these stats. A sexual activity study by Japan's Sagami Gomua condom company, also shows that 59 percent of men and 75 percent of women in their 20s had had sex, while 83 percent of men and 57 percent of women who had not had sex expressed their interest in trying intercourse.

Yet these statistics cannot fully dispel numbers like those coming out of the latest Japan Family Planning Association Survey. Much as being single doesn't necessarily mean one isn't having sex, people who have had sex in the past aren't necessarily having sex today.

Even ongoing sexual activity doesn't indicate sexual interest in some cases. So really the only way to get an accurate gauge on whether or not people in Japan want to mash meats anymore is japanese ask them directly about their sexual interest, separate from their relationship or virginity statuses.

When you do that, the numbers seem to show a steady decline in sex drive over time. As of36 percent of teenage men and 59 percent of teenage women a supposedly universally hormone addled population expressed no interest or men actively turned off by sex—a 19 and 12 percent increase over numbers, respectively. A later survey appears to show lower levels of sexual disinterest, but the numbers examine a different age bracket and therefore aren't really comparable, especially since part of the celibacy narrative is that it's more marked in the younger generations.

The same year, another survey by the Japanese Association for Sex Education found that sexual activity in university girls had gone down to 47 percent, a 60 percent drop since One statistician has created a series of graphslooking for the origins of this trend, which show sex how much lower the nation's collective sex drive is than other nations'.

Cultural commentators attempt to blame this downward sexual trend either on Japan's " grass-eating men ," or "herbivores," a supposedly japanese demographic of sexually timid and sensitive males. But those who study this subculture which seems to be a rejection of standard Japanese masculinity find no real evidence of sexual disinterest —some are even seen as quite suave. Others blame shut-insunemployed and sex awkward young men living with little social contact.

But they number less than a million—far men few to explain these numbers. Singling out these groups as the main cause of Japan's sexual disengagement also feels a bit sex, insomuch as it asks us to believe that bashfulness in men can explain the self-reported lack of sexual interest in young women across the nation. The most convincing explanation for the trend offered thus far may be one of widespread cultural pressures and changing life desires amongst Japan's youth.

Commentators make the point that still-extant social norms about modesty and purity make it difficult to navigate flings japanese casual sex, leading some to see it as a fraught hassle. The Guardian article quotes a local sex and relationship counselor, Ai Aoyama, talking about how many young people do not want to get involved in traditional relationship structures japanese the charged experience of sex.

They don't believe it can lead anywhere. Relationships have become too hard. The Japanese government, in its attempts to sex the nation's fertility rates, has focused broadly on programs to incentivize having children, rather than focusing in on sex.

For years, they've hosted speed-dating sessions and singles mixers and poured millions into tax breaks and cash payments for new parents and policies, like extended daycare coverageto make it easier for women to work while being mothers. The most sexual venture they've undertaken is trying to get businesses to shoo their employees out of the office by 6 PM in the hope that they'll knock boots and pop a few more babies into future census numbers.

Given that a men of sexual interest is a deep, personal, and apparently growing issue in Japan that isn't likely to be solved by any of the above measures, it remains unclear what the government should do to help heat up the nation. There are a few examples of programs in other nations aimed at fostering a sexual spark —from Singapore's "National Night" advertising sex as patriotism to Russia's Day of Contraception giving prizes to those who give birth on a certain day—the effectiveness of these projects remains questionable at best and are not necessarily models should or would want to men.

But much as the best way to get a grasp on the trend of sexual disengagement was to ask people year-after-year whether they were interested in hiding the salami, perhaps the best way for the government to find solutions would be to ask those respondents why they feel the way they do. If the participants say it's the result of societal pressures, maybe Prime Minister Shinzo Abe can do something about that. If they say it's just who they are and how they feel, maybe the Japanese government should consider nutting up sex working on its migrant labor policies to save men workforce and its nation rather than fixating on isolationism and its people's libidos.

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